It is true that lots of people set up online dating profiles without ever taking action or using them to meet someone. However, avoid saying this on the first few dates because clients have told me some men say yes to exclusivity so they can sleep with you, but then disappear any way. Technology means that these sites let other users know how active the person is on the dating site by letting you know how recently they have logged in. If he is not looking for a new partner or keeping himself open to the possibility of meeting someone new, why is his profile still active? He continued dating others while we were working on things. If a man lies to you, its a red flag for sure. I held his hand for the first time n he held mine back.
Am I being over senitive or do I have reason to wonder.
What To Do If the Person You’re Dating Still Has an Active Online Dating Profile
Up over a year, if he checks it, dump him. Anyway I digress. The fact that he then lies about being on the site is ridiculous and this is where I feel that he is a bully and controlling. I hated to do so but I flashed him from a bogus profile, only a flash from an uncomplete photoless profileand he sent me an e-mail with all his details. He pursued me intently, expensive dinners at restaurants, 3 weekends in a row at his house in the Hamptons, expensive gifts. But I feel like he has just raped me emotionally.